Tuesday, 13 November 2012

Pretty Prince Edward County: Part Two

EEEEEK!  I posted 'Part One' of this trip a couple weeks after we went on it.

That was August.

It's now November.

B.L.U.R.G.H.

I went back to work in September and apparently when I work, I forget about writing, my blog and generally everyday life.

So before I tell you about the rest of our PEC weekend (aka the weekend we got fat), I should tell you why my job takes over my life.

I am super lucky to co-host and co-produce two television shows.  One is a segment called The Wedding Belles and the other is brand spanking new and it's called The Proposal.




Okay, now that I have plugged myself back to Prince Edward County.

Urm, I can only remember a <bit> of what we did the next day (not because I was hungover or anything but because it was 3 months ago).

Our first stop was Lake on a Mountain which is literally a lake on a mountain (that part not so literal - I feel it was more like a hill).  Which is a lake made of thousands of years worth of rain water up on a hill rising above the other lake.

And the resort a cluster of stone cottages that I feel might be slightly cuter than Merland.  Unfortunately they are not pet friendly.  So we'll just look at the outside.






Then to one of my favorite stops:  The County Cider Company.

Why do I love this place?  It's cute.  It's dog friendly.  It has GREAT cider.  Jazz in the vineyard.  And the food is full of cheese.

 I'll let the pictures speak for themselves.











One more stop at the beach and then time for ice cream from Slickers because no hot August weekend is complete without ice cream and off home!










There are other stops I really wanted to make.  Like The Grange but alas they had just closed as we pulled up.







So we left Prince Edward County as the sun was slowly setting.  In my rear view mirror I saw the golden light dancing on the farm fields and making the windows of old barns shine and sparkle.

Now that winter is upon us, I think it's time for another trek back to PEC.  Imagine all those fields and barns covered in a blanket of snow, a fireplace with real wood, and a mug of hot chocolate and a good book!

YES PLEASE!!


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 Until next time (which might be a long time),  Mrs. Law








Monday, 27 August 2012

Pretty Prince Edward County: Part One

The Engineer and I are on a mission to explore our new home province of Ontario.

Well, to be exact, I am on a mission and the Engineer is along for a ride.

This past weekend, our adventure took us to Prince Edward County - about two and a half hours east of the city.

Prince Edward County is known for Sandbanks Provincial Park, a burgeoning food scene, and wineries/cider houses/distilleries/breweries.

I think it also holds some sort of historical significance with the Loyalists but I was sampling too much of the latter to really notice.

Here's the thing with lake country/summer retreats in Ontario:  book early.  As in a year in advance if possible.  But you might be more or less screwed if you are like the Engineer and I:  avec pooches.

Pet friendly accommodation is always slightly gross.



Needless to stay, I found an affordable room in a motel (as Manny says in Modern Family:  Comfort always goes down when the 'h' is replaced with an 'm').  I must say the place, Merland Cottages, was spotless.  Albeit right out of 1962.  Also there was a rather boisterous family reunion of a Latin-Canadian family in the adjoining cottages.  And a young child was in the room next to us and the walls were beyond thin.  My peaceful weekend by the lake was not happening at Merland Cottages.

I went the night before the Engineer could get there.  Which left me to do whatever I fancied.

I was at a loss.

And then I remembered the Taste Trail.


I fully intended to eat/drink my way through this taste trail over the weekend.  Who wouldn't?  It's called TASTE trail.  Sounds delicious.


First stop?  The Tall Poppy Cafe in Wellington.  Unfortunately for my stomach, I wasn't actually hungry.  Shocking, I know.


So I picked up two butter tarts (fully intended to give one to the Engineer) and a house-brewed iced tea.


I would highly recommend it.  Firstly, this one road town is quaint and lovely.  Secondly, the baked goods should be enough to bring anyone back.  Thirdly, their brunch menu appears delicious AND Tall Poppy is one of the only food establishments in the area with a brunch menu.




I took my butter tart, iced tea, and panting poochies to a nearby beach to watch the sunset and gorge myself on brown sugar goodness.









I ate both.


Whoops.


We headed back to Merland Cottages and hoped not to be murdered in our sleep. Where I promptly fell asleep and awaited the morning of tasty treats.

Random Barn

Lovely old barn now houses weddings



I got up early <shock> and my early I mean eight.  The dogs and I headed to Taste Trail taste #2 in Bloomfield. 


Doesn't the name of the town say it all?  Bloomfield.  It says I am a cute little town where people smile from their knitting on front porches and little girls sip lemonade while watching the clouds.  I saw both of these things.


While eating my croissant and (yes, and) a vanilla glazed cinnamon bubble bun from Marshmallow Room Bakery. Clearly the name of this place won me over from the beginning.  And it did not disappoint. Inside the bakery there was a myriad of warm baked goodness.  From french bread (sampled - divine) to pecan pie (sampled as well.  INCREDIBLE) to homemade jams & jellies.  With a hot coffee, some warm pastry and the early morning sun warming me up - I sat on the porch and watched the life of this quaint little town. 




That was clearly full of tourists. 


But it was still quaint.


By this time, the Engineer arrived and we set out to Sandbanks Provincial Park. 

Well, first we stopped off for Taste Trail #3:  Buddha Dog.

A gourmet hot dog restaurant that I loved but didn't impress my Costco-all-beef-hot-dog-loving-husband.  Mine was delicious.  A homemade wiener/sausage with Gouda and wine & red-pepper jelly.  YUM!  I would never think to put a red-pepper jelly on a hot dog but it's fabulously delicious.



All hot dogged up, we got back on the road for the park.



I must say I am in love with this park.  It's a mix of farmsteads, meadows and a sweet meandering road along the shore of Lake Ontario.  With three beach areas to head to.  Apparently everyone goes to Outlet Beach - so we avoided that.  And all the kids go to the Dunes Beach - so we avoided that as well. Which left us Sandbank Beach - and the only stretch of beach that is dog friendly.


I also must preface this by saying that the Engineer and I are not beach people. 


Except this beach!  Being the dog part of the beach, it was sparsely populated (I shouldn't share this secret but I only have three readers so it's okay:   aim for the dog part of any beach you go to and you will find you will be very much alone).


This beach is wonderful. There are sloping dunes (very much reminding me of Cape Cod), super fine, soft sand and the water feels like you are at the ocean without the peskiness of salt water.  Waves do crash but the water is shallow so you can body surf without fearing you will drown (maybe this is just me?).




But as I said, we are not beach people so we came terribly prepared.


I looked at the picnic table near us and they were clearly pros.  They came early and scored a table that was shaded by a tree.  They also came with important things.  Like snacks and chairs. 


And a big blanket. 


A big blanket that Mr. Mop made himself at home on.


Ugh, this dog is a disaster at the beach.  I let him off-leash only because his recall is so good.  However, I always forget that water makes him act like a three-year old boy who was just eaten cotton candy.


He ran into the water and then proceeded to run along the beach, rolling in the sand.  THEN he ran to this big blanket, plopped himself in the middle of it and began to rub his wet, sand-ridden body all over it.


Luckily, the beach pros were also dog owners and thought this hilarious.  All the nearby beach bums also laughed at him (he was making his weird growling noises of pleasure) and quipped he was full of 'personality'.


He gets that so much. I know what that means. What a funny little badly behaved terrier. 


As much as the Engineer and I wanted to enjoy the beach, we were sadly lacking in food & chairs and our dogs were both rolling and rubbing themselves in the sand.


We decided to leave and stock up on supplies.


And eat at Taste Trail #4:  Agrarian Cheese Market.  Okay, this place isn't officially on the Taste Trail (I don't know what/why the places that are on the trail are on and others are not), but it should be tasted.  After all, the menu is gourmet grilled cheese sandwiches. 


YES PLEASE!


We went in with the intention of sharing a sandwich (mostly because the Engineer was shocked at the $10 price tag of a sandwich) but then we couldn't agree on the same sandwich.  And let's face it, I can always eat a full grilled cheese sandwich to myself.




I had the Blue & Frere Jacques with spicy wine jelly (again with the wine jelly!) and the Engineer the 'Sassy Sausage Surprise' which was onion cheddar, sausage and chipotle lime mustard.   As suspected, both were incredibly yummy and have inspired me to be more creative with grilled cheese.  Although Kraft singles do make damn good sandwiches.






I also had watermelon sangria. OH. MY. WORD.  SOOooooo good!  I would have loved a few more glasses but it was the middle of the afternoon and we had to go back to the beach sans dog.



By the time we got our act together, we got to the beach at about 4:30.  Just when everyone was leaving. 


Perfect.


We snacked on a picnic of baguette (Marshmallow Bakery), chicken liver mousse (Agrarian), meat, some more cheese, Pimm's, and the pecan pie and fruit crumble (Marshmallow Bakery).






Which brought us up to sunset on the lovely beach. 





Honestly, this lake is so big that it's hard to remember it's a lake.  With the waves crashing and the water a bright blue, we really felt we were in Nantucket or even somewhere tropical. 


Definitely fell in love a bit more with Ontario as the sun went down on a wonderful day.

- Until next time,  Mrs. Law




Tuesday, 21 August 2012

The Compromise Stuff is Bull*@&)

Life is full of compromises.

That is what they tell me.

I am an only child.

Enough said.

Therefore, upon entering my marriage, I have discovered this new thing called 'compromise'.  I mean, I knew it existed before we got married.  I just didn't believe in it.

Basically, before we got married, the biggest 'plight' of our relationship was when I got two dogs on the same day (that's right, you heard me.  TWO dogs, SAME day).

Look at how much they love each other!  HA!

It's very hard to get them in the same picture OR look at the camera


The Engineer was really upset by this.  He felt I should have consulted him, blah blah blah. Because apparently me getting dogs changed our lifestyle.

We were even counselled on this issue.

I should mention our councellor was my co-host on Wedding Belles and her 'office' was a sushi restaurant.  So not exactly a relationship expert (in fact, I believe halfway through our 'heated discussion' she smiled and said "Do you think me and X will ever argue like this?").  Pretty much worst relationship therapist ever really.



I felt that there was no ring on my left finger and we did not share lodgings.  Therefore, my decisions were by own.  And if he liked it/wanted an opinion he should put a ring on it.


So he did.

And now he LOVES the dogs!  And they really love him. They are such weirdos sometimes


And now we have to compromise. About everything.

I have heard women say things like "Oh my husband/partner/cat doesn't care or have an opinion" or men saying things like "happy wife = happy life" (advice given to my husband on our wedding day that he chooses to constantly ignore when I want my way).

Nope. Not in my house.

It seems that only when I have a strong opinion about something does the Engineer feel the need to totally hate it and suddenly have an opinion.

The first true test came when buying a house.

I fell in love with a church convert townhouse when we first moved to Toronto just over a year ago.  I loved the sense of history & statlieness about the home (I am obsessed with living in a converted church and not being particularily - read not at all - religious, I don't know why exactly.  I also would like to live in a converted barn and I am not a cow).  It had brick walls, stained glass and a cute little view of a steeple.  I was in LOVE with this place.  The Engineer?  Meh.

Swanwick Heritage Lofts


He fell in love with a trailer.



Okay, not really, but he did suggest buying one to live in while we save up for a real house.

He did fall in love with a house that I thought was 'meh'. 

So there we were.  Neither budging.

We had to <gasp> compromise. On a townhouse that has yet to be built and we haven't seen.



Boy. I sure hope we like it.

This was actually a huge challenge.  Even though my parents did say no to me growing up, I often inevitably got my own way.  I am used to getting what I want due to sheer determination.   Too bad for me, so does the Engineer.

I'm actually glad our marriage isn't that "whatever the wife says goes" sort of relationship because it challenges me to not throw a hissy fit and makes me learn how to agree on something together.

There have been things I force on the Engineer. 

Like a hot pink lamp that he thinks looks like a bottle of Pepto Bismol. 

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Or throw pillows - remember that debacle?  Or a mattress cover.

When the hot pink lamp stayed in the home this was the Engineer's compromise:  "You can keep the lamp as long as you know I am going to put something in the house that you think is ugly".

I guess I'll take my chances.  So far I have been able to move his NYU Beer Stein to a drawer and gave his BC Hyrdro hockey trophy to his friend (who also happens to be married to one of my closest friends.  Sorry C!).

So in buying this house we faced our first compromise challenge. 

And now it's time to pick the finishings.

Help us.

We survived the bathroom & kitchen cupboards.  Not that it wasn't a <bit> of a battle.  I now hate it when he just says 'no' to not liking something. He has to tell me why he doesn't like it (this exercise came when naming our future children.  Something I do often.  I love the name Charlotte.  He hated it.  After a while I discovered it was because he didn't like the way 'lotte' looked.  WHAT?  But he liked the sound of it.  So now he has come around when he realized that was the dumbest reason not to like a name).

I wanted high-gloss white for all the cupboards.  I got the bathrooms.  We chose shaker white for the kitchen.  And if those things prove difficult to clean I know who to blame.  I also got an extra drawer for the bathroom!  WOOHOO!  He saw the sense in a drawer where I could put all his crap and not look at it.  Now he will know where to find his nose-hair trimmer.

While watching a makeover show on HGTV last night, I saw these amazing gray stressed wood floors.  They looked awesome!

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So I asked him if he liked them.

No.

What exactly do you not like about them?

The grayness.

Hrm, fair enough.

Another thing that comes out with this compromise business is a <bit> of passive aggressiveness on my part.  So when I pull out the old PA to get my way, he asks "Why are you being passive aggressive?". My response?  "Why are you making me be passive aggressive?".

Okay, fine. I have to curtail my extra-girly taste a bit and not get an extra ruffly duvet from Anthropologie. 

And he has to curtail his non-taste (and by this I don't mean he has bad taste, he just doesn't seem to have a taste at all) and not always have this as an answer "whatever is cheapest". 

Of course, this is the marriage that started in mid-2010 with this statement "As long as our wedding doesn't look like a little girl's room".


Rule 42 pinwheels


Miss Ruby Sue fascinators


Little Kitten Homemade bunting

Dreamspun pettiskirt & Rule 42
Ribbon wands I made myself!


Okay, it looks like I get my way most of the time.  The Engineer is a big softy . . . .